Memorial Day

A Tribute to Chester Mau & Felipe Salasmemorial day definitely has a bittersweet sentiment to it. before work yesterday, i visited my maternal grandfather's grave. although i never met him, my entire family said he was a wonderful man who loved to create and build things - pots, tools, furniture - all out of stainless steel. that's almost all i know about him. his creations and projects are all around our house because my uncle has a sentimental soul - i'm thankful for that. it gives the younger generations proof of our grandfather and great-grandfather's existence and personality.

visiting his grave also reminded me of my paternal grandfather who had such a strong personality - stern yet playful. he was one of the most funny men i've known and he taught me how to make finadeni. i was crushed and devastated when i lost him. he was the first person i lost. my vivid memories of him chuckling at the dinner table still make me feel loved and lucky to have had him in my life.

this memorial day weekend was also very emotional as one of my good friends left to Kansas for a year. you never realize how much a person means to you until they're gone. Blanca had the time of her life here in Hawaii.my family and friends threw her a going away picnic. she thanked each of my family members individually for preparing the food and hosting a picnic for her. she also mentioned that she feels like family when she's with us - this touched my heart. it's exactly how i wanted her to feel: welcome.

this weekend has taught me that although as humans, we are forced to move on, work, make money and survive - we still have hearts and souls. we still take the time to spend time with family, friends and loved ones. this warm feeling of gratitude, nostalgia and sadness is what makes Memorial Day significant.